Winning and maintaining your own dream relationship with another person is as much a relationship with your authentic self. How do you talk to yourself? What is your attitude to yourself? Is there room for improvement? If so, you should look through the list of Welcome product titles here and get to work on yourself first.
The real secret of success is to acknowledge and ‘feel the pain’ associated with the things you must let go of, and then ‘feel the pleasure ‘ of who you want to attract into your life. Only then can you create the magic of your dream relationship.
Once you have successfully dumped most of your own baggage, you can start to search for Miss Right. Get clear in your own mind, so start writing down a list of the qualities you seek in your new dream relationship.
You should be clear about;
- your own core values.
- your dreams and aspirations.
- the personal qualities you desire in a woman, and why.
Any successful relationship must be aligned upon these. Then manifest it in the mind first. Use all of your senses to visualise, hear, touch, and smell your dream relationship.
“Conceive it, then Perceive it as if real, then your unconscious mind will Believe it, so it can Achieve it”
– Peter Zapfella.
If you had a bucket of mud (representing negative emotions and behaviors), but you wanted a bucket of clean fresh water (representing positive emotions and behaviors), you could put the bucket of mud under a tap and run fresh clean water (representing subliminal affirmations) into the bucket. But it would take a long time, and you would still have a bucket of muddy water. That is an analogy of how most subliminal affirmation downloads currently available on the Internet work, or perhaps do not work. Peter Zapfella uses his one-on-one therapies to ‘throw out’ or delete the mud (representing negative emotions and behaviors) and then you can choose to use the ‘Welcome’ Subliminal Affirmations to quickly and efficiently refill the bucket with fresh clean water (representing positive emotions and behaviors). No mud … just your dream relation ship!
Everyone of us is unique. We have all had different life experiences and we react to them differently too. Most emotional and behavioural challenges can respond well to one-on-one psychotherapy tailored to the individual, using Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), hypnotherapy and perhaps cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). That is why Peter Zapfella suggests you start with one-on-one therapy using Skype and then use the ‘Welcome’ subliminal affirmations to ‘lock-in’ the unconscious shifts long-term. Of course you can ‘flip-it’ and try one of the 266 ‘Welcome’ MP3’s first, and see if they are effective for you without therapy. If so, that’s great. If not you can use skypetherapy.pro
Now you can listen to these subliminals when ready to sleep and let these gentle and encouraging words guide your unconscious mind into the realms of dreams. If you listen to this MP3 while sleeping, on ‘repeat’ or ‘loop’ your unconscious mind will hear this message around 450 times every night. Alternatively you can listen in the background during the day at work or leisure, as no hypnotic trance is required.
These subliminal messages are simply ‘obscured’ from the conscious mind within masking music or environmental sounds to prevent conscious analytical thinking. The more these messages are repeated, the more they are uncritically accepted by the unconscious, which maintains emotions, beliefs and habits of behaviour. A simple message, repeated enough, will become a new unconscious belief, which your unconscious can manifest into your dream relationship. A message repeated following therapy with Peter Zapfella can achieve miraculous results.
Subliminal Affirmation Text:
“You use all of your senses to visualise, hear, touch, and smell your dream relationship. When you see girls walking down the street, in the park, at the beach or at the mall, you say to yourself ‘she is my new girl friend’. You see her in your imagination. You see her hair. Her skin. Her eyes. Her body. You can hear her voice and personal scent. Most importantly, you know her personality, her femininity. Conceive it, perceive it, believe it and achieve it. You are now more clear in the mind and more relaxed in the body. You accept everything and everybody because now you are more confident. You have greater self-control and the way you feel is becoming better and better because the burden has been lifted for ever and ever now that you welcome your new dream girl friend into your life.”
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