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Lack of confidence around the opposite sex is fear based. There may be anxiety too. It can be driven by self-awareness to the point of self-doubts and feeling embarrassed.
For some, particularly during and soon after puberty it is nothing more than a little shyness, and it can be overcome quickly and easily with small talk, and some social situations. Thats why teenagers date.
For others it is actually an irrational fear or phobia called Sexophobia or Heterophobia.
While many people choose to ‘live with’ their phobia by avoiding the trigger of their fear and anxiety, one can hardy avoid half the human population.
In the lower west side “Zip Code” of our brain is a ball of motor-neurons called the Amygdala (pronounced Ah-mig-dala).
The Amygdala is more than 5 million-years old, and older than humanity itself. in evolutionary terms,
Many biochemists and neuroscientists talk about the Amygdala as a “fire alarm” in the brain, or something similar.
That is because the Amygdala triggers certain behaviors when we perceive a threat (such as a snake slithering or a vehicle skidding toward us on an icy road).
It’s the Amygdala that instinctively kicks into gear and causes us to run away from any kind of perceived threat to our survival.
Fear of the opposite sex triggers can include certain types of individuals and photographs and voices and clothing or perfumes and make-up – almost anything. We call this uncontrollable irrational fear Sexophobia or Heterophobia.
In the hit US TV comedy “Big Bang Theory” Rajesh “Raj” Ramayan Koothrappali, Ph.D. suffers from the phobia Sexophobia or Heterophobia. This video shows how his fictional character is distressed and misunderstand. as a result.
He tries drug therapy with awful results. The simple fact is drug therapies do not work.
We all have natural feelings of sexual attraction and a need for intimacy. If an individual suffers from this phobia there is a very real risk the anxiety could develop into depression for some people.
For others they may seek out a same sex relationship because it is the only thing that works for them. In “Big Bang Theory” Rajesh is confused about his sexual preference, which seems to see-saw between heterosexual and homosexual. We call that bisexual.
A lack of confidence around the opposite sex often has a fear of physical sex in there somewhere.
Through the series Rajesh manages to overcome his phobia and have successful relationships with the opposite gender. He shows us that even the most hopeless cases can change.
Popularized by the US TV series ‘Sex in the city’ many people expect sex on the third date, if not the first. The idea is, if you date 6 times that is an extreme wait. But the truth is the ‘right’ time is when you feel comfortable, there is no hard and fast number – there never was.
Sexually active gay and bisexual men are known to most often engage in sex on the first date. Then they either get together for a second date and get to know each other’s names, or they cut and run after their first and only sexual encounter.
As with other phobias the fear of the opposite sex may consist of any or all of the following criteria:
- the persistent fear of the opposite sex.
- exposure to the feared gender provokes an immediate anxiety response.
- adult sufferers recognize that the fear is excessive, unreasonable or irrational (this is not always the case with children).
- exposure to the opposite gender is most often avoided altogether, or is endured with fear and dread.
- the fear interferes significantly with daily activities (social, familial, occupational, etc.) including, in some extreme cases, leaving the home.
- symptoms last for at least six months, often commencing in childhood.
- anxiety, panic attacks or avoidance cannot be accounted for by another mental disorder.
The symptoms of a phobia and associated panic may include;
- shortness of breath,
- rapid shallow breathing,
- irregular heartbeat,
- excessive sweating,
- nausea,
- dry mouth,
- inability to articulate words or sentences,
- shaking,
- blushing,
- feelings of dread
- fear of dying
- fear of harm or illness
- guilt, shame, self-blame
- Withdrawing from others
- Feeling sad or hopeless
- Feeling disconnected
- Confusion, difficulty concentrating
- Anger, irritability, mood swings
- feeling to run-away
- feeling faint, pallor, tinnitus, panic attacks
The feelings of dread are very real for the sufferer because the unconscious mind has activated an instinctive fear reaction. The reaction is either ‘stand (or freeze) and fight’ or ‘flight’ (run away).
The old out-dated treatment for phobias was called ‘desensitization’. It involved exposing the sufferer to their fear over and over again. This most often caused abreactions — a type of catharsis.
Abreactions are ‘the expression and consequent release of a previously repressed emotion, achieved through reliving the experience that caused it’. Therefore, pre-recorded MP3 download hypnotherapy products incorporating age regression are usually impractical. At worst abreactions can re-traumatize a client if mismanaged. Hypnosis Downloads found on the Internet are usually nothing more than hypnotic inductions followed by positive affirmations. They are not ‘therapies’ at all.
While this approach is time-consuming, expensive, and perhaps traumatic, some psychologists still persist in using this antiquated therapy approach today.
Sigmund Freud and Josef Breuer used hypnosis to assist patients to recall and relive traumatic experiences from their past which had been repressed by the unconscious for protection. Freud then abandoned this therapy approach. Psychoanalyst Carl Jung expressed interest in abreactions as a possible way to purge trauma, but later decided it had serious limitations. Science fiction writer and founder of Scientology, L. Ron Hubbard had observed abreactive therapy in a Navy hospital. He then wrote about it in his book Dianetics, claiming it as his own invention. Truth is, it had fallen out of favor long before he picked it up. Some psychologists are experimenting with technology, such as VR goggles, to use ‘cyber desensitization’ which still persists in causing abreactions.
Psychoanalyst Carl Jung expressed interest in abreactions as a possible way to purge trauma, but later decided it had serious limitations.
But guess what?
There’s a new frontier in subliminal and regression hypnotherapy that now allows you to positively hijack or “verbally hijack” the Amygdala. This causes the brain to absorb new updated information that causes the brain to effectively dump the old outdated information that caused the irrational fear or phobia in the first place.
And when the Amygdala changes the entire brain “spins out” and a person’s ingrained (defensive) thought patterns collapse in an instant.
When that happens – you literally “reset” your behavioral patterns without thinking.
And here’s the really cool thing:
There is a subliminal technology that is so effective and POWERFUL not even hypnosis veterans (with 40+ years’ experience) “see it coming” when it’s used with them. They are unable to explain what just happened. It just happened without any struggle or effort.
Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex subliminal messages are abreaction free, so you can rest assured you are safe.
Some medications can be used to treat the anxiety but fail to address the presenting problem (ultimately it never goes away – stop the medication and it returns). Anxiety can be temporarily treated with drugs such as the commonly prescribed benzodiazepines, which include Valium (diazepam), Xanax (alprazolam), Klonopin (clonazepam) and Ativan (lorazepam). The problem with drug interventions are the possible side effects – including drowsiness and addiction. The medication approach is just a ‘coping mechanism’ rather than ‘a remedy’.
Synonyms of the word phobia include; anxiety and aversion or distaste. Also dread and self loathing or obsession. Perhaps panic and resentment or revulsion and avoidance or detestation and disgust or dislike and fear or hatred with irrationality or neurosis and repulsion and terror.
The symptoms of a phobia (which may include; extreme anxiety, dread and anything associated with panic such as shortness of breath, rapid breathing, irregular heartbeat, excessive sweating, nausea, dry mouth, inability to articulate words or sentences and shaking) are very real for the sufferer, because the unconscious mind has activated the instinctive fear reaction, as a survival reaction.
Our deep unconscious mind is supposed to seek out threats and assess the level of danger to protect us. Sometimes it thinks the level of threat and danger is worse than it is in reality. If the irrational fear or phobia results in a panic attack, it is a panic attack which is the real threat. The phobic reaction has failed its purpose because it is not protecting at all. It is the danger because the sufferer cannot focus and think clearly.
The Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex MP3 is an abreaction free. It can guide your deep unconscious mind to quickly and painlessly release the problem without any pain or struggle.
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Subliminal Affirmation Text: Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex
“Past self doubt about the opposite sex has vanished. Because you now understand the past is nothing but a memory of how you used to think and behave. It is funny to think that some other people fear speaking to the opposite sex even more than you do.
Now you listen more than you speak. You treat everyone with warmth, dignity, and respect. You are open minded to all the people who have different skin colour, sexual preferences, sexual identity, disability, religion, culture and beliefs. Because diversity is richness of experience and understanding.
You make eye contact and you smile often. you laugh at other peoples good jokes and you have a few good jokes of your own, ready to use when appropriate.
You feel more confident and self assured because you know you are well presented. Your skin, hair, teeth, breath and clothes are clean, neat and tidy. You look good. You smell good.
You are open and honest, and you feel good. It shows.
You might not have noticed, you are now more calm and relaxed in the mind and the body. You are more confident and the way you feel is becoming better and better because the burdens have been lifted for ever and ever now that you welcome confidence around the opposite sex.”
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Hipno Hop Rap Text: Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex
“I used to struggle with the opposite sex
Insecure and scared, feeling perplexed
But now I see, the past is just a memory
Of how I used to think and how I used to be
It’s funny to think, some people fear
Speaking to the opposite sex, oh dear
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Treating everyone with warmth, dignity, and respect
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You are more confident, with greater self-control
Now that you have let go of that past, you’re on a roll.”
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