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Porn is a public health crisis! It reinforces toxic masculinity. Porn promotes misogyny in men and boys. As a result, they develop unrealistic perceptions of the sexual relationship between genders. It contributes to sexual dysfunction, dysregulates sexual behavior, destroys relationships, undermines the sociosexual development of our youth, and puts women and children at risk. according to some.
Others point to the following list of advantages of porn.
- It is healthy. if you are watching porn and masturbating, as most men do, you cannot catch sexually transmitted infections.
- You can escape into your own erotic fantasy anytime you choose, it does not require the active participation of a partner. A survey of Playboy readers found 72 percent of married men masturbate, and a similar Redbook survey found 68 percent of married women do it, too.
- Sex, including masturbation, relieves stress. When you are stressed your brain releases cortisol that blocks problem-solving and the ability to think clearly. In a study conducted by Carnegie Mellon University, men who flipped through pictures of naked women cut their cortisol in half.
- Sex with a long-term partner can become boring and tedious. Porn can breathe new life into a relationship by improving sexual communication and understanding. A study conducted by Ann Summers, 58 percent of women who said they watch porn with their significant other said it positively affected their sex life and created a safe space to ask for what they want.
- Porn is educational. Without pornography, we may not have discovered more than the traditional ‘missionary position’.
- Pornography helps users discover their own preferences. We may find an interest in a particular age or racial grouping, or kink. I was well into my 20’s before I saw any hardcore porn. (I grew up in a time when it was illegal). Today young people more than a decade younger than I was then are watching porn regularly. This is not an entirely ‘bad’ thing as they are working out their preferences earlier and overcoming confusion and perhaps mistakes.
- However, inexperienced viewers may develop unrealistic perceptions by not realising that a successful relationship is about sharing and giving pleasure to a partner – not using them for self-gratification. Boys may benefit from an honest talk with their fathers about porn during sex education discussions.
- Likewise, mothers can educate their daughters to understand that they do not need to consent to any unwanted sexual advances. If they feel uncomfortable, they can say ‘No’. This is a sign of a healthy self-esteem and self-respect. When the time is right, and they feel comfortable they can enthusiastically consent.
- Porn allows people to ‘live-out’ their kinky fantasies online without taking them into dangerous places in the real world. If your thing is ‘golden showers’ with midgets, or inter-racial sex in a moving bus, for example, you will find it online.
- Porn can lead to better sex in the bedroom. A 2015 study conducted by the University of California found a positive correlation between porn and a man’s sex drive. Scientists at the university asked 280 men to record their porn-viewing experience while tracking their libido to see if watching sexual stimuli is related to how someone responds to real-life sexual advances in the bedroom.
- Porn has created a sex industry, and employment, free from physical prostitution, and potential sexually transmitted infections.
- It’s cheap. There are a lot of free porn sites online, and if you choose to pay for more of your particular interest, its far cheaper than paying for a prostitute.
In a 2002 survey conducted for PBS/Frontline by the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction at Indiana University, 86 percent of respondents said porn can educate people, and 72 percent said it provides a harmless outlet for fantasies. Among those who reported using pornography, 80 percent said they felt “fine” about it.
Some synonyms for the word porn include; immoral and indecent or lewd and salacious. Others say sexy or X-rated and adult or off-color also offensive, porno and prurient and purple also raunchy or rough also smutty and steamy
Do you think you or your partner may have a pornography dependency? If you can tick ‘yes’ to all or most of the following porn questions you would be right.
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- Preoccupation with thinking about porn and planning opportunities for viewing pornography.
- Over time do you want more? The amount and even the type of pornography that could ‘get you off’ in the past just does not work for you anymore. You need more and you need something more exciting. According to the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists high consumers of pornography suffer from desensitization, they eventually need more to get a similar effect as they did in the past.
- You seriously consider taking your porn fantasies into the real world, no matter the cost or harm it may cause to others.
- You cannot quit? You don’t have the will power to quit. You have tried and failed. A Kinsey Institute survey found 9 percent of porn viewers said they had tried unsuccessfully to stop.
- Time does not exist while watching porn? You lose all track of time while watching so it may eat into your sleep time, your personal relationships, work, study?
- Is your real sexual performance slipping? In a 2013 study, researchers at Brigham Young University and the University of Missouri surveyed heterosexual couples who were married or living together and found that men’s use of pornography was associated with lower sexual quality for both men and their partners. Female use of porn, however, was associated with improved sexual equality for women (Journal of Sex Research, 2013).
- Rather than using porn as a ‘warm-up’ to real sex it becomes a substitute for the real thing? After all, you can just switch it on and it is there. You don’t have to wait for it to be in the mood, and it never gets a headache.
- Do you have irrational demands upon your sexual partner, as a result of watching ‘fantasy porn’? Remember, most porn is fantasy, and not real life, even if they have titled it that way.
- Do you suffer physical pain as a result of watching too much porn? Porn addicts often report skin abrasions, wrist, back, and neck pain and headaches.
- Do you pay for porn, and then find you have been ‘ripped-off’? Banks report increased cyber-crime involving porn sites that over-charge or, in some cases, sell your credit/debit card details to a third party.
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Are there 3 in your marriage? You, your Internet/porn sexual relationship and a jealous wife? - Are you neglecting your commitments? Addicts start to fall behind in their relationships, work, study, social commitments because the boundaries between cyber and reality become blurred.
- Do you feel ashamed, guilty or angry as a result of your porn addiction?
“I had a young man come to me with a porn addiction. He recognized it was irrational and he needed help. He told me as a result of powerful urges he would send his partner out on needless errands, such as to buy some bread when they already had enough, so he could quickly reach for his secret porn stash and masturbate alone. His partner was becoming suspicious that he was keeping a secret, and trust issues were eroding their relationship,” said Peter Zapfella.
There is a SEXTORTION SCAM email doing the rounds. Millions have received the email in various languages. I have received it twice. It is addressed to ‘you’. It says something along the lines of “I posted my Trojan virus on an illegal underage porn site, and while accessing this porn site my spyware virus was installed on your computer operating system. The camera on your computer shoots video every time you masturbate and sends it to me.” Without so much as a screen shot to prove their claim, they demand payment in Bitcoin, otherwise they threaten to will share the video with everyone you know.
Unfortunately, in a panic some people actually pay. They act without thinking it through. Next thing they get further demands for money which is how blackmailers operate. Some people have committed suicide as a result. Remember they are breaking the law, not you, so report them to your country’s cybercrime authority. Never reply to their emails. If you do, they will target you again and again with various scam and spam emails. Let them think it is a ‘dead’ email address.
Unfortunately, children receive these emails too, so if you are a parent I suggest you discuss this SCAM with them before it happens. Tell them to ignore it and delete it and block it. Porn addicts are more likely to receive these emails simply because they register with and access more porn web sites where scammers can potentially harvest usernames, email addresses, even passwords.
These are the simple steps to take if you receive one of these emails that have been sent to millions of people around the world in various languages.
- As you read the email remain calm and notice it is not personally addressed to you. It could just as easily apply to someone else.
- Notice errors and inconsistencies in the message.
- Copy the email so you can inform official cyber scam authorities.
- Delete and block the email.
- As a precaution change your passwords.
- Do not use your regular email address when accessing porn sites.
- Cover the camera on your device with a sticker when not using it for your own peace of mind. Of course, you know if your camera is covered then the email must be a scam.
I have a close friend who is a government spy (I will say no more about that except). My friend has advised me to cover my computer camera as a precaution except when I choose to use it. I think that is good advice for everyone to put a sticker on it.
On another occasion I detected an unfamiliar transaction on my bank account statement. I immediately contacted my bank. the person i spoke to said accusingly “You have given your bank details to a porn web site.” “What? No, I didn’t” I defended myself.
I was shocked by the way the bank officer accused me, rather than asked me, if I had given my bank details to a porn site. Perhaps he was trying to shift the blame on to me? I realised this is a common problem. “Oh. Did you give your bank details to any other suspect online web site?” “No. I didn’t” I replied. (I later realised it was a legitimate bank transaction I had not recognised)
Peter Zapfella uses NLP and hypnotherapy to painlessly release the porn dependency forever, in an empowering method called the Emotional Alignment Technique. This does not mean you cannot watch any porn in the future, rather the control it had over you has been released.
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Subliminal Affirmation Text: Free From Porn Dependency
“Porn no longer has control and influence in your life. You can either take it or leave it. You really do not care about porn one way or the other. You realize you don’t want it, you don’t need it, you don’t crave it. You are stronger and stronger.
Actually, you realize it was a massive waste of time and effort. You realize it was all a mistake because you never needed it at all.
You prefer to invest your time and effort in relationships and the real thing.
You are now more clear in the mind ….. you welcome life beyond porn dependency.”
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