The male orgasm is pretty obvious because it is usually accompanied by an ejaculation. The female orgasm on the other hand is more difficult to identify. Plus, there are no less than five different ways for a female to experience the Big ‘O’. Yes five!
Orgasm types Sensations
Clitoral A tingly feeling on the skin and in the brain.
Vaginal The vaginal walls pulse because they are deeper inside.
Anal Contractions around the anal sphincter.
Combo When the outer vaginal clitoris and the internal G-spot are stimulated together, at the same time explosive convulsions may result. Some sex-toys have been designed to stimulate both.
Erogenous Stimulation of the ears, nipples, neck, inner elbows, inner knees, and inner thighs (groin) can trigger a pleasurable reaction when kissed and caressed. For example; I had a girlfriend who could orgasm when I gently caressed for ear lobes. My next girlfriend would slap me if I went anywhere near her ears.
The five keys to the Big ‘O’ are;
- Expectation – Some women do not experience orgasm because they believe their enjoyment of sex is ‘a bad thing’. They ‘do not deserve’, or they are ‘too uptight’.
- Experimentation – ‘Practice makes perfect’. Experiment and find what works for you. Perhaps talk to close friends about what works best for them? Consider help by using a sex toy? Maybe cunnilingus is the key to orgasm?
- Method – When you discover your own magic ‘touch’ practice and find your ‘rhythm’. Take your time and allow yourself to let go in total privacy.
- Consent – Any and all sexual play must have permission from all concerned.
- Communicate – with your partner so they know what works best for you. Perhaps you could make it part of your foreplay? Once you have mastered it you could seek an orgasm before sexual penetration.
I suggest you start in privacy, alone. Explore your body and find what works for you before you involve someone else. They come into the picture later.
- Not all vaginas are the same. When the clitoris starts to get wet – naturally or with a little added water-based lubricant start to apply pressure in a repetitive motion.
- Make it faster and add heavier pressure as the feelings intensify.
- Enjoy the feelings no matter how subtle they may be. Just go with the flow.
Vaginal orgasm – G Spot
- You will find your G – Spot in the upper inside wall of the vagina. It has a rough surface.
- Penetration by the penis incorporates a reciprocating motion. This method uses a swirling circular motion, so you do not need a penis to stimulate it. Use fingers or a specific sex toy designed for the purpose.
- Continue the motion and go with it.
- Men can experience an anal orgasm through pressure on their prostate gland – just ask any gay man about it. Women do not have a prostate (unless they are ladyboys). However, the sphincter muscle at the opening of the anus and just inside can be stimulated by the fingers, toys, and tongue to bring her to orgasm.
- ‘Rimming’ is the caressing of the anus by the tongue – just ask any gay man about it. It should be thoroughly cleaned before you start.
- If your partner and you agree to the penetration of the anus it is important he moves slowly as you relax and enjoy the feelings. Use a water-based lubricant and consider a condom.
- As you gain confidence and experience you can combine clitoral and vaginal stimulation. Play with the rhythm to find what works for you best.
- Ears, nipples, neck, inner elbows, back, inner thighs or groin, inner knees, feet, toes.
- Use a light touch, perhaps a feather to tickle your fancy in each of the erogenous zones to find your own ‘buttons’.
- Later a partners lips, tongue, teeth, and fingers may help you discover new pleasures.
Consent and Communication
- Now it is time to invite your partner to join you upon the quest for the Big ‘O’.
- Consider a bubble bath? Incense or aromatherapy? Make sure the lighting is just right. Perhaps candles? Maybe some music?
- Do not expect your partner to somehow magically know what your ‘buttons’ are, or exactly how to ‘touch’ them. By now you have discovered for yourself what works best. Now clearly and deliberately guide them in an intimate setting.
- Remember, variation is the spice of life, so be prepared to do things differently from time to time.
- Use your Welcome the Big ‘O’ subliminal affirmations to give yourself permission, at all levels of consciousness, to relax and allow yourself to experience it.
Welcome Subliminal Affirmations: the ‘Big O’ For Women
In psychology, the deep unconscious mind is often referred to as ‘the child within’. Like a child, the deep unconscious is not logical. It does not understand time or reality. Just like a small child, a simple message repeated often enough will eventually become a new deep unconscious belief.
The ‘adult’ logical conscious mind usually filters incoming information. So, if it does not ‘fit with’ current beliefs it may be rejected, and not passed down to the deep unconscious for processing and storage as long term memories. This is why reading positive affirmations aloud usually fails to make much impression upon the deep unconscious mind – it has already been rejected by the surface conscious mind as untrue. Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women subliminal affirmations are skilfully written messages, professionally camouflaged below music or environmental foreground sounds, so the logical conscious mind cannot hear them (and therefore cannot filter them out either).
With repetition, Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women drives our ‘self-talk’ and creates our unconscious beliefs that in turn drive our behaviors and habits, which are auto-behaviors. As the unconscious mind consistently hears these inspiring words it eventually accepts them as a new truth. The transformation can be almost immediate and miraculous because the change happens ‘inside’, with no conscious effort.
“You become what you believe”
Importantly, no hypnotic trance is required for success! The secret is the way Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women affirmations are repeated over and over again every minute, just below conscious awareness, but within an awareness of your deep unconscious.
Only ‘Welcome’ subliminal affirmations feature these important properties;
- You can clearly hear the ‘first read’ of every Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women subliminal before it slides down below the masking foreground music and sounds. In this way, you consciously, logically, and analytically process the message. This builds conscious trust and confidence in the affirmation messages. Conscious acceptance ‘un-locks the gate’ more effective than others.
- As your deep unconscious continues to listen, your conscious may hear ‘distant’ words, somewhere within the foreground music. Research proves this audio level to be most effective in creating unconscious learnings and long-term change. It is also reassuring because you consciously know what your deep unconscious mind is hearing, without the tedious repetition.
- In psychology, the deep unconscious is often referred to as ‘the child (mind) within’. Just like small children, it enjoys repetition, and that is the best way for it to learn.
- Because Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women subliminal MP3’s are more effective the longer you listen on ‘repeat’ while driving, working, at the gym, running, sleeping, or anytime you choose. There is no need to focus on listening because they are designed to be most effective in the background.
- If you listen while sleeping, on ‘repeat’ your unconscious mind will hear the Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women message more than 400 times every night. If you were to listen to the ‘Environmental – Lake waves’ MP3 or ‘Theta’ binaural waves while sleeping. You can choose to listen to the pleasant piano and guitar’ melody and the ‘Zumba’ – Latin style dance music during the day. Then your deep unconscious can hear the affirmations repeated an additional 800 – 1200 times. That’s powerful.
- The more you listen to your Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women subliminal affirmation messages = greater number of repetitions heard by the deep unconscious = clear negative emotions and self-limiting beliefs = a new attitude and behaviors.
- Perhaps the cheapest and easiest option is to download and listen to Welcome the Big ‘O’ For Women subliminal affirmations as recommended. This approach is very effective for many people.
- An alternative option is to consult with Peter using Skype or another voice-over-internet-protocol to complete relevant diagnostics and a ‘one-on-one’ interview where he can determine the most appropriate approach for you.
- The listening time it takes to change will vary with every individual. Following optional ‘one-on-one’ therapy with Peter Zapfella most will notice measurable changes almost immediately.
- If you have not ‘cleared’ the underlying emotional challenge and associated deep unconscious beliefs before listening to your ‘Welcome’ subliminal affirmations you can expect it to take longer for behavioral changes to occur, perhaps weeks. As everyone has a different life story it would be irresponsible for us to suggest a specific time period.
- So, keep listening to your ‘Welcome’ subliminal affirmations as often as practical day-by-day until you create personal miracles in your life! Perhaps, the first you may know you have changed will be positive comments from family and friends who have noticed subtle changes in you.
- Peter Zapfella has more than 25 years of professional experience as a psychotherapist, having consulted for some of Australia’s largest and most respected companies.
- ‘Welcome’ subliminal affirmations are backed by optional ‘one-on-one’ consultations with Peter Zapfella worldwide via either type, Skype, FaceTime, Viber and Facebook Messenger. Ask for a ‘Welcome’ discount at Skypetherapy.pro
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Subliminal Affirmations: the ‘Big O’ For Women
“Sooner or later you will discover your own magic ‘touch’. Maybe you hadn’t discovered your most sensual ‘buttons’ and rhythm until now? Don’t orgasm too quickly. Take your time for everything to be right for you.
The experience for you can be delicate, multiple or explosive. When you are ready communicate with your partner, so they know what works best for you too. And remember, it is not over just because your partner has finished.
You might not have noticed you are now more ….’.”
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