“Anger is a sign that one does not understand,
and cannot communicate one’s own feelings.”
– Peter Zapfella.
There are so many books, articles, workshops, ‘how to’ courses and counseling about ‘anger management’…. are they effective in the real world? Most revolve around ‘relaxation techniques’, or ‘converting’ anger into some constructive pursuits, such as sport. Attempts to consciously ‘inhibit’ or ‘suppress’ anger are certain to fail.
Most often following ‘anger management’ training the anger is still there, like a monster locked in the closet, trying to get out. ‘Anger management’ is a conscious ‘avoidance’ process. Sooner or later consciousness will be caught letting it’s guard down. Sooner or later the monster breaks out and attacks with vengeance.
‘Anger management’ books, articles, workshops, ‘how to’ courses and counseling are all logical, analytical conscious processes. Yet anger and rage are emotional. They emerge from a completely different area of the brain.
It takes a tremendous conscious effort to ‘manage’ anger. Yet with NLP it can be resolved, and even deleted at its source, in the unconscious mind.
The solution is to identify the previous, automatic unconscious thought patterns and behaviors that resulted in anger and rage, then delete them. Next, create new unconscious thought patterns and behaviors that result in cool, calm, centered thinking. The whole process takes place within the unconscious, where the problem emotions arose. It is not conscious. That is where the Welcome No Anger MP3 comes in, following optional one-on-one therapy with Peter Zapfella.
Anger is usually an intense emotional response often preceded by feelings of irritability and frustration. An angry person may lose his/her objectivity, empathy, prudence or thoughtfulness and may cause harm to themselves or others. It may be triggered by real, felt or imagined grievances, such as a defence mechanism to hide fear and hurt.
Occasional anger is a normal emotional response. However, when it becomes uncontrollable and turns destructive, it can cause problems at work, at home, in personal relationships, and overall quality of life.
A person experiencing anger will also experience physical conditions, such as increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, and increased levels of adrenaline,
Like rage, anger serves no positive purpose. Symptoms may include:
- Sweating, rapid heart beat, and rapid breathing
- Changes in appetite
- Muscle tension
- Feeling irritable
- Difficulty sleeping
- Difficulty dealing with constructive criticism
- Social withdrawal
- Poor concentration and memory
Synonyms of the word anger include; annoyed, bitter, enraged, exasperated, furious, heated, impassioned, indignant, irate, irritated, offended, outraged, resentful, sullen, uptight, antagonised, choleric, convulsed, cross, displeased, exacerbated, ferocious, fierce, fiery, fuming, galled, hateful, huffy, ill-tempered, incensed, inflamed, infuriated, nettled, provoked, raging, riled, sore, sulky, turbulent, vexed and wrathful.
“Anger and aggression are not the same thing “
– Peter Zapfella
Extreme levels of anger are called rage or fury. Intermittent explosive disorder (IED) is characterised by frenzied explosive outbursts of hostility, impulsivity, anger and violence, which may be dangerous. IED is a sudden, often unprovoked emotional ‘explosion’. We are told about one in every twelve teenagers suffer from IED.
Common risk factors:
- adolescent male
- past head and brain trauma
- childhood physical abuse and trauma
- alcohol or drug abuse
- depression feeling hopeless, self-hate
- low self-esteem
Associated disorders may include;
- Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD)
- Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
- Obsessive-compulsive disorders (OCD)
The most common signs and symptoms of IED may include:
- intentionally causing property damage
- verbal and physical aggression
- road rage
- aggressive outbursts
- suicidal tendencies
- feeling building tension in the head or chest just before an outburst
- fatigue following an episode
- tingling feelings
- hearing echo’s
- chest palpitations
- racing thoughts
- inability to focus and concentrate
- poor performance at school or work
- frequent irritability and frustration
- noticeable mood changes just before an episode
- frequent anger outbursts building into an uncontrolable rage
- feeling ‘out of body’ during an episode
- guilt and shame
If left untreated IED can result in any of the following;
- academic failure
- suspension from school because of anti-social behavior
- dropping out of school
- socially mixing with other ‘no hopers’
- dropping out of former social groups and sports
- frequent physical injuries
- substance abuse and addiction
- alcohol abuse
- domestic violence
- child abuse
- suicidal ideations
- premature death as a result of accident, violence or drug overdose
Sufferers need professional intervention as early as possible, which may include medication.
Our self-talk is driven by our dominant emotions. The self-talk builds our self-beliefs which in turn create our behaviors. Habits are learned automatic behaviors.
Are you a victim of circumstances beyond your control?
Are you at the ‘effect’ end of the ‘cause and effect’ paradigm?
– Peter Zapfella
The more the Welcome No Anger messages are repeated, the more they can be uncritically accepted by your unconscious as a new truth. A simple message, repeated enough, will eventually become a new unconscious belief. As you live that modified belief your outward behaviors will reflect that inner change. The Welcome No Anger MP3 will help you become that man – the man of their dreams.
If you listen to the Welcome No Anger MP3 while sleeping, on ‘repeat’ your unconscious mind will hear this message almost 400 times every night. If you were to listen to the ‘Environmental – Lake waves’ MP3 while sleeping, you could choose to also listen to the ‘Pleasant piano and guitar melody’ and/or the ‘Zumba’ – Latin style dance music during the day. Then your deep unconscious would hear the affirmations repeated around 800 – 1200 times, while your logical conscious mind would hear it around 60 – 90 times. That’s powerful because a message repeated enough will become a new unconscious belief.
The Welcome No Anger subliminal affirmations are clearly spoken once before they fade-down and ‘disappear’ from conscious awareness within masking music and environmental sounds, thereby foiling ‘adult’ conscious analytical thinking, which could otherwise ‘filter out’ messages. In this way, the listener knows for sure what their deep unconscious mind is hearing without listening to these messages its
Also because we all have different listening preferences, Welcome No Anger has a choice of foreground variants for you to choose from. ‘Click here’ to hear samples.
Every one of us is unique. We have all had different life experiences and we react to them differently too.
Perhaps the cheapest and easiest option is to download and listen to Welcome No Anger subliminal affirmations as recommended. This approach is very effective for many people.
An alternative option is to consult with Peter using Skype to complete diagnostics and a one-on-one interview where he can recommend the most appropriate suppliments, nutrition, MP3 resources etc etc for your individual challenge.
Otherwise you can consider one-on-one psychotherapy tailored to you, the individual, using Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), hypnotherapy and the Emotional Alignment Technique.
If you had a bucket of mud (representing negative emotions and behaviors), but you wanted a bucket of clean fresh water (representing positive emotions and behaviors), you could put the bucket of mud under a tap and run fresh clean water (representing subliminal affirmations) into the bucket. You would still have a bucket of muddy water for a long time. That is why subliminal affirmations alone can take a lot of repetions to achieve desired results . The effectiveness of any subliminal affirmation depends upon how often it is repeated and the intensity of the deep unconscious belief or presenting challenge. Peter Zapfella uses his one-on-one therapies to ‘throw out’ or delete the mud (representing negative emotions and behaviors) and then you can choose to use the ‘Welcome’ subliminal affirmations to quickly and efficiently refill the bucket with fresh clean water (representing positive emotions and behaviors). No mud …
Perhaps this is the single most important opportunity in your life up until this moment. Do yourself a favour, and download the Welcome No Anger MP3 now. Then listen, and listen again. You will feel the force rising from within, with a strong sense of purpose to succeed.
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Subliminal Affirmation Text:
‘You feel relaxed and calm now, because that old irritability, frustration and anger from long ago has gone forever. It is just a distant memory disappearing into the past. It was a childish way to behave because it achieved nothing. It only made you feel worse. Now you are more grown-up and matured. You are resourceful. You have life experience and wisdom to draw upon. You can communicate so much better now. You have choices. You are now more clear in the mind, more relaxed in the body. You can accept everything and everybody because you are more confident, and you have greater self-control. The way that you feel is becoming better and better because the burdens have been lifted forever and ever now that you welcome a life with no irritability, frustration or anger.”
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